Wednesday, January 6, 2010

How do I figure out what attracts me to certain men?

Attraction is very important to me when dating ... but its not just looks that do it. I don't even know what it is, but I know its not just looks because I have been unattracted overall to good looking men who wanted to date me (despite being physically attracted). However, I am not all that attractive myself and keep getting ditched for prettier girls.





How can I figure out what is attracting me to the guys I like and look for it in guys who are more likely to settle for me?How do I figure out what attracts me to certain men?
i'd take a paper and write down all the guys you've liked and write down everything you like about each guy. give each guy a different column. you have to be honest with yourself and write down EVERYTHING. then compare lists and find out what pops up the most.





i'm gonna take a guess for you though because i think you're similar to me. i don't go for good looking guys either, i don't know why you don't go for them, but for me it's because i don't want women hitting on my man all the time or checking him out when they see him. it drives me nuts and i'll always wonder if my guy is cheating on me or being tempted to. so i go for personality, just the way he treats me. also, the body. he has to be somewhat built because that way i feel protected. yeah so that's the situation with me, hope it helped!How do I figure out what attracts me to certain men?
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How do you figure out what graduate schools to apply to?

There are like 10 I'd love to go to but they're very competitive and i don't have the grades or scores to get in. what should I doHow do you figure out what graduate schools to apply to?
You'll have to decide how much you're willing to spend on a very slim chance, and then find some less competitive programs that might be willing to consider you someplace you'd be wiling to live.

How do you figure out how many dpo when using opk's?

I don't know why but I picked last Sunday as my lines on my OPK were the same color then (2 lines indicates ovulation is occuring). But I did get a bit lighter results a couple of days before that so when would I start counting how many DPO I am? Friday or Sunday?!





Thanks!How do you figure out how many dpo when using opk's?
Are you only using opks or are you temping at all? You really can't tell exactly when you've O'd without also knowing your temps.


When you get a + opk, you will usually ovulate (if you do at all), within 12-36 hours of the positive test.


So say you ovulated the same day as the +opk, which was Sunday. So that means monday, you're 1dpo.

If not god then what? I find myself trying to figure out what the point of life is?

I know its pointless but if not god then what? I can't help thinking that I have this void in my life I mean me and my wife aren't perfect and I love my son but I'm smart enough to know I have it good. So why the emptyness. I am a atheist and I know some are gonna say that I need god in my life , but the thing they dont realize is I try but facts and common sense just tell me no.If not god then what? I find myself trying to figure out what the point of life is?
I'm in the same boat, and I have no advice to offer. I know if I could truly buy into religion that it would fill the ';void';, but I also know that trying to do so at this point would be fake. I DON'T buy in, and so going through the motions wouldn't bring any value to my life. At the same time, I also know I won't find an answer, and yet I cannot stop myself from pondering it. It's frustrating at time, makes me a pretty depressed guy, but also when I step back, it's almost as though it's the world's greatest riddle. To me, there is obviously SOMETHING else going on, some rhyme and reason to things, so we obviously don't have the full picture, and we have the capacity to analyze and think through much of it, so it certainly is a good way of killing time while here.If not god then what? I find myself trying to figure out what the point of life is?
The thing about God is, it's all faith... and there is no commons sense to faith- hence the statement a leap of faith! Perhaps God has been shown to you more as a religion. The origon of religion goes back to ';bondage'; which so NOT what God wants for us. He wants you to have a life of freedom and peace, and you get that in return for having faith in Him and believing. Assuming you got married because you love your wife and had faith that ya'll would be together as life partners, put that in a paralell with God. Good luck. I have been where you are and I do empathize with you. What has helped me is finding a nontraditional church- a nondeminational church. They are able to relate the bible to TODAY and not use all the ';thees, thous,etc';.
What are you living for? do you have a live mission? are you working towards that mission.. do you have goals that are alined with your morals? if not on any and all of these you will feel a tad empty inside!


I'm not an atheist nor am i a bible thumper I beleive we are here and there is a higher power but i mark it off as energy.


i also have personal fact to make me belive what i do.





You love everything you have and that is GREAT! but you need to find your own mission in life to make it mean anything to you!





Good luck!
My brother said the only way is to look forward to things, even if they are ordinary and routine. Look forward to the next half hour. Look forward to cleaning out your cupboard. Look forward to work. Look forward to coming home.





Do not get hung up with a lot of isms and ologies - atheism is an 'ism' too. Let go of it and look forward to having a clear head. Look forward to talking to your wife and hugging your son.





Look forward to getting to work, look forward to coming back.





Look forward to the weekend, and look forward to your next birthday.





Look forward to stuff. Dread nothing.





Good luck.
The meaning of life is just that: TO LIVE! Live and let live. Remember the song ';Dusk in the wind'; by Kansas:





';I close my eyes


Only for a moment, then the moment's gone';





Time is like a flowing river, it awaits nobody; close your eyes for a moment and that moment is gone...forever. Use the time that you have wisely.





Live, because that is why you are alive...





The meaning of life is simply to live...





Cheers and


Good luck in your quest.





/Danny
To me, the point is evolving to a form that could survive the end of the universe, then find its own purpose.





A long way to go !
';Live fast, die young, leave a good looking corpse';-James Dean
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  • How can I figure out if my instructor gave me the right grade in math?

    5 exams= 60%- only taken 2 so far


    Final Exam=20%


    everything else=20% =100%


    (hm-wk, quizzes, handouts)


    How do I figure out my percentage from each category?How can I figure out if my instructor gave me the right grade in math?
    What? You gave us the percentages? You fail.How can I figure out if my instructor gave me the right grade in math?
    It depends how many points each exam is worth... unless they are all worth the same you need to do some extra work:





    If they are all the same, average them and say A is your test average.





    If not, take your text grades in fraction form: so a/b , c/d , e/f . g/h. i/j and calculate the percentage like this : (a+c+d+g+i)/(b+d+f+h+j). This will be called B... if the tests are not worth the same.








    Now: your total grade will be this





    .6A+.2(Final exam percentage)+.2(Everything else percentage)





    If the tests are worth the same. If not, then it will be:





    .6B+.2(Final exam percentage)+.2(Everything else percentage).








    Example: your tests are all worth the same, and you score an average of 80% on the tests. On your homework, you score 95%. On the final, you manage to get 92%.





    Your total Percent will be:





    .6(80)+.2(92)+.2(95)= 85.4
    You have 3 categories. Convert each into a percentage grade.


    Then do a weigted average of the percentage grades





    .6 x (5 exam grade) + .2 * x (final exam grade) + .2 x (everything else grade)





    This should be your overall percentage grade.

    How can I figure out the name of my Pants?

    I have in my possession what I consider to be the single greatest pair of pants ever made--however, I've had them for about two years, and they're starting to disintegrate. All I know about them is that Paris Blues made them--to the best of my knowledge, there's no tag that says what they're called, or anything. How can I find out what these pants are called so that I can buy more pairs of them? Is there a secret tag? Details? Ways to contact any kind of...pants...authority?How can I figure out the name of my Pants?
    Sigh, I had a blouse like that too, and never found out where to buy more of it.What I did was buy material, took it to a seamstress and said ';make me a replica of that blouse'; . The result was not the same but it was -- good enough.





    Now, maybe you can do the same for the pants.





    or start the lonely tiresome procedure of trying on new pants in every store in your city. The next best pants you find, buy at least 3 of them.How can I figure out the name of my Pants?
    Yahoo! is your friend, search for Paris Blues.





    If they are 2 years old, they may not make them anymore, but you may find something similar.
    if the pants are part of a crime scene then the law will magical track down where they where manufactured. the law is good at using fake machines and DNA crap that is all fake.
    I just checked and their website doesn't have online shopping. What I'd do is search for places you can find Paris Blues pants, and try your best to find something similar. If it's been two years, they probably do not make the same exact pair still.

    How can I figure out my own personality and then relax and have fun?

    I've never EVER been ';myself'; since I can remember. I've alwyas been trying to be something else and am now in a situation where I don't know what to do but must figure myself out. People always say ';just be yourself!'; but that's very hard when your first memory is trying to turn into the exact same person as your friend at age 5.


    help me? :/How can I figure out my own personality and then relax and have fun?
    Your self will be revealed as you skip, hop, and struggle along the path of life. You are what you do.How can I figure out my own personality and then relax and have fun?
    try out many different things, like different sports, hobbies, music and write down what you truly like (even though others might disagree with you). slowly you will develop a personality and you will be able to enjoy the things you truly like. However, remember this process might take years, good luck,





    try this site with articles on how to live a relaxed life:


    http://www.easyrelaxed.com
    So you basically don't know who you are? I have no idea how that is possible. Just think about it for a second, if you have always been trying to be someone else, then that's who you are. I don't know how to explain myself better though.
    Ahh well I do Know Exactly where you are coming from.. your real self is still inside of you somewhere.. you just need to relax.. dont worry and just let it come out, the real you will reveal it's self. you just have to be patient and live life :)
    hmmmm, just. .. just talk. just talk and let yourself out.